Saturday, June 11, 2016

Faith Salie - You've Got My Approval!

As everyone who even knows me a little bit knows - I love a good memoir about a baller lady. When I saw that one of my favorite NPR ladies wrote a book, I had to read it! Faith Salie did not disappoint. Approval Junkie is funny, honest, and often resembles my life WAY too much. After reading this book I wish that I could call Faith up and be like "Hey girl, you're pretty fabulous. Lets go get mani/pedis and Starbucks."

Her book touches on so many issues that girls and women deal with today: not skinny enough, not pretty enough, waiting on kids, dating the wrong guy, and seeking approval in all the wrong places. She talks about her life so openly that it made me reflect on so many of the missteps that I've made over the years. Her life has followed a crazy route to get her to the happy and (hopefully) healthy place that it is now. We've all had our low points, but I continuously am amazed when women can write about those times in a way that can help other women (or men) find their own way. As I'm about to embark on the next chapter of my life, I'm glad that I'll be able to take some great advice that Faith laid out in her book.

I don't think most men would understand this book. But I think it could be a great way to start encouraging men to think about the added pressures that women have in today's world. Faith's memoir is, of course, about her life and her experiences, but this book is a look at the human condition. Faith provides insight into love, career choices, educational paths, and eyelash extensions. Faith, I totally approve.

Book provided by Blogging for Books.

Friday, June 10, 2016

Out of Orange is the New Black

By now, most people have heard of the hit Netflix original series Orange is the New Black. What a lot of people don't know is the story behind the very real people who are fictionalized in this show. While Piper Kerman (Champan in the show) had the chance to tell her story, many of the other characters did not. Her memoir paved the way for the very real Cleary Wolters (Alex Vause for those who watched the show) to tell her side of the story.

Cleary's memoir, Out of Orange, is poignant, funny, and emotional. She opens with her reaction to realizing that her life was going to become a TV show, expressing both her rage and excitement as she binged most of the first season the day it was released. The fictionalized version of her life has similarities to what really happened all those years ago, with some key differences. Cleary did serve a sentence at a women's prison for both carrying drugs and enlisting others to carry drugs across borders. But the show's writers took many liberties while creating a fictionalized character and the real "Alex Vause" shines through in this memoir.

Honest and sometimes heartbreaking, Cleary recounts the years of her life spent as a drug mule, trying to get her life back on track, and the years she spent in prison. She talks of how scared she was each time she carried drugs and of the covert blackmailing that led her to continue her life of crime. However, she does not try to pretend like some of her experiences weren't fun. Although she does not glamorize the criminal world, when an African drug lord is footing the bill, a several week stay at a resort is going to be a raucous good time. Whether you're a fan of the show or looking for an intriguing memoir, Out of Orange will make you laugh, bring you to tears, and have you wanting more.

Copy courtesy of Ohioana Library